Lorraine S. O’Callaghan

1921 ∼ 2018

Lorraine S. O’Callaghan

Lorraine Shortell O’Callaghan, widow of John D. O’Callaghan Sr. was born April 21, 1921 in Derby, Connecticut.  She graduated St. Mary Elementary School (1933) and Derby High School (1937).  She graduated from Albertus Magnus College in 1941 with a B.A. degree in History and Political Science.  Upon graduation from college she worked for the State of Connecticut, Division of Child Welfare as a supervision worker.  After her marriage to John O’Callaghan in 1945, she was a stay at home Mom to care for her two sons.  Always interested in community affairs, she was active in many organizations.  She served as President of the Woman’s College Club and was a charter member and President of the Lower Naugatuck Valley Chapter of the Albertus Magnus College Alumnus Association.  In 1956, she was named the first Executive Director of the newly established District Office of the Catholic Family Services, Archdiocese of Hartford.  One of her first concerns was the lack of locally based social service agencies necessitating Valley residents to travel outside the Valley to receive services.  She helped organize the Valley Social Workers Club and served as its President.  This Club met regularly for several years with the goal of encouraging outside agencies to become more familiar with the social service needs of the Valley and to provide more local contacts.  Lorraine served on the committee to establish the first local Mental Health Association and the planning committee that founded the Homemaker Service.  Ansonia Mayor Joseph Doyle appointed her to the first committee on the aged whose work resulted in the opening of the Ansonia Senior Center – the first one in the Valley.  She was a Board Member of TEAM.

     Lorraine was a specialist in Adoption services and served as the Chairwoman of the Archdiocese of Hartford Adoption Advisory Committee.  A long- time member of the Board of Directors of the Derby Historical Society, she received their Service Award in 2003 and was named an Emeritus Board Member.  She was a charter member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Ancient Order of Hibernians.  She served as Executive Board member of the Huntington Chapter of AARP – a longtime member of the Ansonia Garden Club and its Treasurer for many years.  Lorraine was an active member of Assumption Church and a lifelong Red Sox fan.

In the Fall of 2012 Lorraine moved to Oak Bluffs, on the Island of Martha’s Vineyard, to be nearer to her son Jack, who resides on the Island. In the past 5 years she resided at Windemere Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, where she excelled at Bingo and Trivia contests, and took part in the many outings that were made available to her.

She is survived by her two sons, Jack, of Vineyard Haven MA and Kevin, who lives in Greensboro, NC, five grandchildren; Ryan, Sarah, Scott, Cheryl, and Robert, two great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild.

Visiting hours will be held on Wednesday, Feb. 7 from 5:00 to 7:00pm in the Chapman, Cole and Gleason Funeral Home, Edgartown Road, Oak Bluffs. On Friday, Feb 9 her funeral mass will be held at Our Lady Queen of the Apostles Church, 212 Elizabeth Street in Derby, CT at 11:00 am with burial following in Mt. St. Peter Cemetery also in Derby.

In lieu of flowers, the family would be grateful if a donation was made in her memory to the Windemere Nursing and Rehabilitation Center Recreational Fund, PO Box 1747, Oak Bluffs, MA 02557.


Wednesday, February 7, 2018
5:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Chapman, Cole & Gleason
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Friday, February 9, 2018 | 11:00 AM

Our Lady Queen of the Apostles
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Friday, February 9, 2018

Mt. St. Peter Cemetery
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Windemere Nursing and Rehabilitation Center Recreational Fund, PO Box 1747, Oak Bluffs, MA 02557

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Lorraine S. O’Callaghan

1921 ∼ 2018

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