Wade J. Oliver (UPDATED)

1961 ∼ 2017

Wade J. Oliver (UPDATED)

Wade Joseph Oliver of Oak Bluffs died unexpectedly on November 23, 2017.

Wade was born and raised on Martha's Vineyard. He moved to Key West, FL where he lived from 1990- 1995, when he moved back to the Vineyard where he met his wife, Pamela (Ponte) Oliver. Wade had a passion for working on cars, boats and pretty much anything mechanical. He also loved all the out doors had to offer including fishing and quahoging.

Wade is survived by his wife Pamela (Ponte) Oliver, daughter Tabitha Oliver, son Damien Hathaway, and step daughter Danielle (Ponte) Grillo. He is also survived by his mother Grace "Bunny" Oliver, brother John Oliver, sister Monica Oliver; nieces Amanda and Taylor Sloditskie, nephews Michael Sloditskie, and John Oliver Jr; granddaughters Jayla Lyons and Lillianna Grillo. Wade also leaves behind longtime best friend Dale Walker, and Ryan Camacho whom he loved and cared for as a son. He was predeceased by his father Victor Oliver, and brother Victor Oliver the 3rd.

There will be a celebration of life at the PA Club in Oak Bluffs on Saturday December 2, 2017 at 11AM, you may bring a dish to share if you'd like.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the GO FUND ME account to help pay for his cremation, as per his finial wishes.


Saturday, December 2, 2017 | 11:00 AM

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Wade J. Oliver (UPDATED)

1961 ∼ 2017

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